9 friends bicycling 600 miles through Kenya, May 6-21, trying to raise $40,000 to build a needed school in northwest Kenya. Follow our journey. Match our sweat with a donation for the school.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Monday, June 18, 2012
Children Running Alongside Us
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Joseph's Ride
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Re-Entry, or Getting Through Reverse Culture Shock
Yesterday, I sent a follow-up email to our Bike Kenya
2012 cycling team. I share part of it here because it may offer an insight into what is frequently experienced when a
person returns from spending time in another culture, particularly in a developing
country. The experience is called re-entry
or reverse culture shock. Below, I've expanded a little on what I
shared with our team:
I don't know about you, but I'm experiencing re-entry
issues. I miss Kenya and the friends we made there. I miss our team.
I am struggling to reengage fully with daily duties and ongoing
relationships. I am having trouble appreciating usual conversational topics--cars, clothing, gadgets, concerts, sports, politics, etc. For
now, these seem rather shallow and unimportant.
All this is normal. It's part of re-entry, or
what is called reverse culture shock. We had an incredible experience. We were exposed to and immersed in a culture and economy so very different from what
is normal in USA. We saw inspiring things. We met wonderful people.
We also saw troubling things and situations. Impressions about life there
and at home formed in us that we couldn’t quite understand or articulate. Then, all of a sudden, we're back in our homeland where there seems to be so much of everything for everyone--with too much to spare.
Welcome to re-entry. The worlds of "not enough" and "too much" weigh on our hearts and minds. Our experience of being there and being back here can change the way we see
things and feel about the way things are valued and done at home.
Frankly, it can be uncomfortable for you and for the people who care most
about you. Just be aware.
If you have not already done so, find somebody (or
somebodies) to talk to who has/have also experienced this and who can offer
some support and encouragement. Journal your way through it. Pray
your way through it. Hey, even bike your way through it. Just don't not deal with it or try to deal with it alone.
Having experienced this a few times, I find that is helps me to find some way to serve others locally and tangibly.
Serving people close at hand who need support and encouragement is one of the ways our
head and heart find a new place of meaning, perspective, expression, understanding,
resolution, clarity, and focus forward.
I look at what we have on our hands here as a gift and a burden. It was a blessing to have this unique cross-cultural experience. But this gift leaves us with something of a burden. What shall we do we do with what we experienced? Unlike a souvenir, we can't just put it on a shelf or pack it away. It's somehow with us in our thinking, valuing, choosing and acting every day.
My experience in India in 2007 ultimately found a forward and positive expression several years later as I began to work with International Child Care Ministries in development and communications. Through this role, I am able to impact lives and some of the situations and systems that initially left me troubled and feeling overwhelmed. May there be some creative ways for each of us to offer grace to others--and change the world just a bit--from this experience.
I do not pray that you will return to
"normal," so that this will have been one more passing experience in a
string of life experiences--"been there, done that, got the t-shirt."
Instead, I pray that you and I will ultimately be able to use our unique
and wonderful experience(s) to become compassionate and graceful advocates in
tangible ways in the days ahead. You have my prayers. You also have
my email and my phone number.
Thanks for your partnership in this endeavor.
I am convinced we were brought together uniquely for this mission and
experience and that the good that comes from it within us and for others will have multiplied impacts for
years to come.
-- John Franklin Hay
Monday, June 4, 2012
Children of Kenya
Everywhere and all along the way of the hundreds of miles our Bike Kenya 2012 team pedaled in Kenya, there were children. Little ones screamed "Jambo!" with glee from the thresholds of their houses as we rode past. Primary school children would run alongside us as long as they could. Older children would wave and flash a bright smile. Wherever we stopped to take a break from riding and take in some water and nourishment, children would gather round. We saw thousands of children going to or from school and at the ICCM schools we visited. They frame and define Kenya, really.
Kenya's children reflect what is going on around the world. The number of children in the world today is unprecedented. In many developing countries, the majority of the population is under age 17. Like what is reflected in the face of this child our Bike Kenya 2012 team encountered few weeks ago, the world's children are anxious.
Will their anxiety become despair or hope? Will it morph into fear and foreboding or blossom into anticipation and possibility? Please pray and act with us for the children God has put within our reach to have the opportunity to become all they have been created to become to the glory of God. May their lives be fueled by good nutrition, educational excellence, spiritual vitality, and economic opportunity as they move toward adulthood in the years ahead.
Kenya's children reflect what is going on around the world. The number of children in the world today is unprecedented. In many developing countries, the majority of the population is under age 17. Like what is reflected in the face of this child our Bike Kenya 2012 team encountered few weeks ago, the world's children are anxious.
Will their anxiety become despair or hope? Will it morph into fear and foreboding or blossom into anticipation and possibility? Please pray and act with us for the children God has put within our reach to have the opportunity to become all they have been created to become to the glory of God. May their lives be fueled by good nutrition, educational excellence, spiritual vitality, and economic opportunity as they move toward adulthood in the years ahead.
Sunday, June 3, 2012
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